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Like a Rolling Stone

Career Transitioning, Leadership
LIKE A ROLLING STONE - Alexandra Humbel CoachingMark Seliger - The Guardian
LIKE A ROLLING STONE - Alexandra Humbel Coaching

Photograph: Mark Seliger – The Guardian

The Rolling Stones: Masters of Reinvention

Back in ’72, Mick Jagger boldly declared, “When I’m 33, I’ll quit – I don’t want to be a rock star all my life. I couldn’t bear to be like Elvis Presley and sing in Las Vegas with all those housewives and old ladies coming in with their handbags. It’s really sick.”

Well, Jagger didn’t exactly take the Elvis route to Vegas, and here I am, ready with my handbag, hoping the Stones keep rocking in the next decade.

Now, why am I gushing about the Stones in a second act of life thread? Simple. It’s a shoutout to their insane vitality and creativity. Kudos not just for mind-blowing concerts, but for continually creating new music, captivating the world and my rock’n roll heart with their timeless sound.

Their secret sauce? Not continuity, but transformation. Think about it – how many musical trends have they surfed in their 50-year saga? Repeating hits? Nah, that’s not their style. Re-invention is in their rock’n roll DNA. There were silent Stones periods, but when they resurfaced, it was magic, uncompromised by time.

The other gem? The power of the team. Tabloids whisper, but they’ve weathered storms. In reinvention, relationships matter. They created magic together, over and over.

Sometimes, a good visual speaks volumes. When I see someone feeling discouraged about their career, I want to hit “play” on “Angry,” from the Stones’ latest album. A joyful, provocative nod to their journey, seen through the eyes of a young actress born way after they started. I love it – honoring the past, not taking themselves seriously, welcoming the new, and still offering fresh vibes to the world.

So, when life gets tough, here’s to the Rolling Stones, the masters of reinvention, and a reminder that it’s never too late to rock on!

by Alexandra Humbel
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Classically Neat at Ralph Lauren, from soldier to leader

Coaching Stories, Leadership, Success Stories
Soldier to Leader

In this picture, it’s me with my arms crossed, wearing a beret, unknowingly photographed at the exit of the fall-winter 1995 Ralph Lauren fashion show in Bryant Park, New York.

The day after I was flying back to Paris. You can imagine my surprise when my colleagues called me and said “your picture is prominently displayed in today’s fashion section of the New York Times!”

 

The irony that escaped me at the time and strikes me now is the title of the article. “Classically neat” is an incredibly accurate description of who I was.  

 

Here is the story. Powerful fashion brands are largely defined by their image. The image is carefully and skillfully coded, like an entire language of its own. The positive impact of the brand is conditioned by the consistency of its message at all points of contact, public and corporate. Product, advertising, internal and external communication, media, editorial, retail, events, packaging, brochures, and all the marketing material must tell the same aligned and compelling story. Beyond the obvious, the brand codes apply to the team members. As such, we dressed, spoke, and acted “Ralph Lauren”. We breathed “Ralph Lauren”. We did it willingly because the designer had created, beyond the product, a whole world of cool elegance, which was reflected in the company’s culture. Frankly, it was a nice place to be. 

 

Being a good soldier, and loving it

There is abundant literature about leadership and every professional is urged to be one. There is absolutely nothing wrong with finding the leader in yourself. If it pushes you to grow and develop new skills, I’m in. I just want to point out how useful it can be to just be a good soldier, especially when you find yourself in an environment where there are massive opportunities to learn. That was the case for me at the time of this photo. I was absorbing knowledge like a sponge. As a PR Officer, I was exposed to a million different people, requests, and tasks every day. I was never rebuked. I was a soldier on duty. Was I demonstrating leadership? Probably not. I was efficient and accountable like a bee. I was on a learning curve. I intended to learn fast and expertly master the job. Period.

 

My strategy paid out. After 3 years of being the “Busy Bee” of the PR department, a position opened to take the lead of PR for Ralph Lauren Home Collection. There was an entrepreneurial dimension in this job. It was a small team mainly based in the US, so every member had to be immediately operational and relatively autonomous. My knowledge of the company’s image, codes, and culture was an asset that served me well. 

 

“What got you here won’t get you there”

A couple of years passed. I loved my job, and continued honing my skills with more leeway and ownership. But I could tell something was changing. New collaborators were hired from other fashion and luxury companies, coming up with fresh ideas on how to promote the brand at a higher level. As I heard them proposing new ways of doing things, I felt both defensive (this is not the way we do things here!) and drawn in (hey, why not? It sounds like a really good idea!). Clearly, I was on the wrong side of innovation, having spent the last years implementing the codes, not questioning them. Wherever I turned, I could only see that my set of references was certainly valuable but limited to a unique perspective. It was time to get out of the proverbial comfort zone and move on. As Marshall Goldsmith brilliantly explained in “What got you here won’t get you there”*, there is a time to question some working habits which served you well to get to a certain point, and start considering which new set of skills will take you to the next level. Some companies send promising executives to leadership training or give them coaching services, which is a wise investment. However, most companies won’t, so it is your call to figure it out and take that leap. 

 

*What got you here won’t get you there by Marshall Goldsmith  

by Alexandra Humbel
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Working Longer Years vs. Marketplace Reality – Are You Ready?

Leadership

While debates over extending the retirement age continue worldwide, the stark reality remains: Only one-third of individuals aged 60-64 are still active in the French workforce. This issue is not unique to any particular country but represents a global challenge that demands attention.

Senior unemployment has long plagued societies, with previous attempts to address it falling short. In the words of a former French president, spoken three decades ago: “We have tried everything.” This admission highlights the ongoing struggle to combat unemployment among individuals over 55.

Recognising the Gap

It is encouraging though to witness a shift in focus, as governments recognise the gap between the demand for experienced professionals and the limited opportunities available to them. The French government’s consideration of an index on age equality reflects an evolving understanding of the issue. Now, it is crucial for governments worldwide to take action by evaluating, incentivising, and providing necessary resources to effect meaningful change.

Finding Your Path

While governments and companies play their part, it is essential for experienced professionals to take charge of their own career perspectives for the next decade. Relying solely on job security may not be feasible or even desirable in an evolving marketplace. Instead of waiting for circumstances to dictate your future, consider taking proactive steps to navigate career transitions. Embrace change as an inevitable force that will shape the professional landscape, whether we like it or not.

You Are Not Alone

Recognise that you are not the only one facing this dilemma. An entire generation finds itself caught between the necessity of working longer and a lack of promising prospects. However, you hold the power to determine the right time to assess and plan for the next stage of your career.

Where do you stand?

Engage in reflective self-assessment during moments of relative calm. Approach this journey not from a place of fear, but from a mindset of anticipation. Embrace this moment to proactively explore the next stage of our careers, not driven by fear or scarcity but driven by anticipation and abundance.

The challenge of retirement age and the evolving marketplace realities transcends borders. It affects an entire generation caught between the need to work longer and the lack of viable perspectives. As individuals, we hold the power to shape our own destiny. Let us embrace this moment to proactively explore the next stage of our careers, not driven by fear or scarcity but driven by anticipation and abundance.

by Alexandra Humbel
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3 Leadership Lessons I Learnt From Working With Thierry Mugler

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I have sometimes heard that people who change careers more than once are somewhat unstable or shallow. This is not true. While they are in a career, they are 100% engaged. This was me around 2000, immersed in a corporate career in the fashion industry that I thought I would never leave. The recent passing of the insanely talented and highly regretted Thierry Mugler reminded me of the time when I served as Director of Public Relations of the company he had created. A very intense period of my life, rich in learning, hurdles and inspiration. 

This picture shows me with an air of calm confidence, the kind of confidence Thierry Mugler wanted for his clients. As soon as you put on one of his perfectly cut jackets, supremely elegant with a sexy edge, you instantly felt your self-confidence boosted a notch higher. Well, that was the effect it had on me, and the many other women who vowed him something close to a cult. As Maya Angelou said, “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel”.

It was a promotion for me, my first job as the head of the most strategic department in a highly regarded fashion Maison in Paris. During these intense two years, I had a chance to hone my leadership skills in a complex and challenging environment. Here are a few insights I am happy to share:

1. About leading people who are more skilled than you

In my previous jobs, I was the uncontested expert in my area, and as such, I was able to hire junior persons that I trained to the job until they were able to handle projects with some autonomy. When I joined Thierry Mugler, I found a team of extremely skilled and independent professionals, who looked like they did not need me to tell them what to do. For the fashion week, they were able to organize perfectly choreographed fashion shows from A (early casting of models, negotiate the venue, hire logistics, technic, music, dressers, make-up and hair etc.) to Z (showtime, executed to perfection, with 100 persons backstage and, in the audience 250 prime journalists and TV crews from the entire world). They did this within the budget and, last but not least, with enough flexibility to serve a designer who requested frequent and sometimes drastic changes on short notice. I was impressed, for a reason. So, I did what I did best: I boosted the media coverage, offering more and better exposure to the brand while optimizing the international PR resources. But you don’t lead experts by becoming one of them. My role was to help them grow in their roles, feel valued, be attentive to their needs, help deal with conflicts, and stand for them to the higher leadership when necessary. 

2. Stay curious about change, especially if you don’t like it

As the company went through some drastic changes, I started to feel between a rock and a hard place. On one hand, the CEO counted on me to pass on the message and help the team accept and adapt. On the other hand, our work was deeply disrupted by changes that affected our performance directly. As we moved the offices and showrooms out of town to a new industrial location in the North of Paris, we were at risk to lose contact with journalists and stylists who picked up pieces from the collections for photoshoots in the magazines. While I was loyal to the leadership and willing to support executive decisions, I was discouraged by the caveats of the new situation and did a poor job at hiding my doubts. I was true to myself by not sugar-coating the story. Now, with more experience and perspective, I think I could have been curious a bit longer about the possible positive outcomes of these changes. My lesson here is that being right in the short term may not be the best choice. Rather leave the door open for possible further positive developments. Bringing this mindset to the table is not lying, it is allowing some time for settling, and empowering people to find creative solutions. 

3. Never underestimate the culture – but don’t fall for it

It was an incredible honour to work for a designer I admired and to get invited into his world. The beauty and inspiration were everywhere, from the iconic haute-couture creations to the whole futuristic environment. Thierry Mugler was a fascinating human, with so much culture, intelligence and artistic flair that journalists – always in a hurry- would forget time to spend more time with him. In spite of this privileged exposure,  I was not prepared for a Maison with such an incredibly strong culture, none of it was clearly articulated. It took me a while to uncover the do’s and don’ts, the somehow intricate communication patterns, the sophisticated support system around the designer, the subtle powers and counter-powers, and the working pattern of people driven by passion and urgency, in total disdain for standard working hours. I spent a tremendous amount of time and energy trying to adapt and fit in, but being the mother of two young children, this unpredictable way of life started to take a toll on my personal and family life. 

My takeaway from this time is a sense of gratitude for having a chance to “touch the stars”, the symbol of the perfume Angel by Thierry Mugler that I will cherish forever, and gratitude for the opportunity to push my limits and grow as a professional and a human.

by Alexandra Humbel
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